Manage yourself first
You cannot handle someone else's anger while your own is running the show. This is where it starts: staying steady when someone goes off, catching the old scripts that make you assume it's your fault, and leaving work at work. Not a personality trait. A trainable skill.
How do I stay calm when someone comes at me?
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